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Va\u0161e up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e9 … ","datePublished":"2018-02-25","dateModified":"2023-05-03","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.reaas.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.reaas.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e5312f21b37eec0871f00feffaf403580ddf46c2d055479cc6723fb0100721f2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e5312f21b37eec0871f00feffaf403580ddf46c2d055479cc6723fb0100721f2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"reaas.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.reaas.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a313914_w2534_t1524682039.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.reaas.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a313914_w2534_t1524682039.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.reaas.cz\/koho-si-to-moje-dcera-vybrala\/","wordCount":459,"articleBody":"Kdy\u017e v\u00e1m va\u0161e dosp\u011bl\u00e1 dcera ozn\u00e1m\u00ed, \u017ee si na\u0161la v\u00e1\u017enou zn\u00e1most a dokonce se snad bude brzy vd\u00e1vat, m\u00e1te z toho ur\u010dit\u011b radost. Va\u0161e up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e9 pot\u011b\u0161en\u00ed v\u0161ak miz\u00ed, kdy\u017e se dozv\u00edte, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 budouc\u00ed ze\u0165 je t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 star\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e vy sama. Jen\u017ee va\u0161e dcera je dosp\u011bl\u00e1, a\u010d vy j\u00ed st\u00e1le vid\u00edte jako malou hol\u010di\u010dku. A na souhlas rodi\u010d\u016f \u010dekat nebude. Vy z toho v\u0161ak nem\u016f\u017eete sp\u00e1t a neust\u00e1le p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edte, jak\u00fd postoj m\u00e1te k jej\u00edmu rozhodnut\u00ed zvolit. Zcela spr\u00e1vn\u011b v\u0161ak p\u0159edpokl\u00e1d\u00e1te, \u017ee v\u00e1m nezbude nic jin\u00e9ho, ne\u017e je respektovat. Snaha naj\u00edt motiv, pro\u010d se va\u0161e dcera rozhodla pro v\u00fdrazn\u011b star\u0161\u00edho partnera, v\u00e1s v\u0161ak bude st\u00e1le pron\u00e1sledovat.\u00a0Mlad\u00edci ji zklamali?Pokud d\u00edvka m\u011bla p\u0159ed star\u0161\u00edm mu\u017eem n\u011bkolik zn\u00e1most\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi vrstevn\u00edky a ty skon\u010dily zklam\u00e1n\u00edm, je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee za\u010dala srovn\u00e1vat. A v\u0161e mluv\u00ed ve prosp\u011bch jej\u00edho sou\u010dasn\u00e9ho zral\u00e9ho a zku\u0161en\u00e9ho mu\u017ee. Rozhodla se tedyv\u011bdom\u011b a promy\u0161len\u011b spojit sv\u016fj \u017eivot s n\u011bk\u00fdm, kdo j\u00ed je schopn\u00fd d\u00e1t to, po \u010dem tou\u017e\u00ed a co ji stejn\u011b sta\u0159\u00ed nebo jen o p\u00e1r let star\u0161\u00ed mlad\u00edci d\u00e1t nedok\u00e1zali. Kone\u010dn\u011b z\u00edskala z\u00e1zem\u00ed, pocit jistoty a jedn\u00e1n\u00ed, jak\u00e9 si v\u017edy p\u0159\u00e1la. Vztah m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt bezprobl\u00e9mov\u00fd, proto\u017ee mlad\u00e1 d\u00edvka b\u00fdv\u00e1 na sv\u016fj v\u011bk vyzr\u00e1lej\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e je obvykl\u00e9 a star\u0161\u00ed mu\u017e se zase m\u016f\u017ee c\u00edtit b\u00fdt st\u00e1le v\u00edce klukem.\u00a0Hled\u00e1 n\u00e1hradu otce?Pon\u011bkud jin\u00e1 je situace, kdy mlad\u00e1 \u017eena d\u00e1v\u00e1 p\u0159ednost o generaci star\u0161\u00edmu partnerovi, aby si vynahradila v d\u011btstv\u00ed chyb\u011bj\u00edc\u00edho otce nebo citov\u00e9 probl\u00e9my s n\u00edm. V dosp\u011blosti pot\u00e9 hled\u00e1 l\u00e1sku a porozum\u011bn\u00ed nev\u011bdom\u011b u star\u0161\u00edho mu\u017ee. D\u00edvka tedy sama p\u0159esn\u011b nev\u00ed, co j\u00ed k tomuto rozhodnut\u00ed vede, c\u00edt\u00ed jen, \u017ee vztah se star\u0161\u00edm partnerem je pro ni ten prav\u00fd. Hroz\u00ed v\u0161ak to, \u017ee si bude sv\u00e9ho budouc\u00edho mu\u017ee idealizovat a chovat se k n\u011bmu sp\u00ed\u0161e jako k rodi\u010di. To by ale partner nemusel un\u00e9st, a proto pro zachov\u00e1n\u00ed dlouhodob\u00e9ho spokojen\u00e9ho vztahu si i p\u0159es v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl mus\u00ed k n\u011bmu naj\u00edt cestu jako k sob\u011b rovn\u00e9mu.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.9\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Koho si to moje dcera vybrala?","item":"https:\/\/www.reaas.cz\/koho-si-to-moje-dcera-vybrala\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]